Fellow students. Undergrad or high school. Any age, all areas of study, all levels of motivation and determination welcome. I am one of you, but not for much longer. As I approach my final two months of undergraduate studies, I want to share with you all that I have learned in my four years of college, starting with my freshman year. It’s totally my opinion on some things, but hear me out.
- College athletics consume a lot of time, be wary
- Don’t pursue both athletics and fine arts, you will never sleep
- I went to an all-girls school. Do I recommend it? Yes
- Allow yourself to make the executive decision to leave a college
- Don’t forget to call home
- Prove people wrong. Audition for plays
- Don’t be afraid of community college. Saved me over $15,000.
- Be a commuter!
- Stop thinking people actually care what you’re wearing to class.
- Don’t be afraid to download Tinder
- Don’t be so anxious to meet people
- Stop dieting
- Don’t let boys control you
- Travel, a lot. Roam South Dakota and Wyoming
- Go to a college in Upstate New York, 1200 miles from home
- Swim in Lake Ontario every chance you have
- Film everything, so many memories
- Don’t say yes to everyone, know your limits
- Push yourself, challenge yourself
- Break ups will happen. Let them.
- Long distance relationships are hard, and you’ll cry
- Be creative, every single day
- Be alone. Meditate. Breathe.
- Be single.
- Make academic friends, drinking friends, emotional friends, girly friends, etc.
- Make friends with your professors
- Submit to festivals, be confident in your work
- Fall in love
- Stop dwelling on the past, it’s over
- Stop freaking out over the future, you have time
- It’s okay to cry
- It’s healthier to see a therapist rather than not go at all
- Take vitamins
- Don’t forget about breakfast
- Stay ambitious. Stay curious. Keep going.